For the human relationship, I sum up gradually a principle of
temperament that conforms to me most: that is a mutual respect, close or
distant friends according to situation. I believe that all of the whole good commonalities are naturally formal, be not beg intentionally. I also think that again the
good friend should also have distance; the too noisy comity is usually empty to
have nothing.
Get along with others; if you feel particularly easy, at easily
in again feel truly teaching benefit, I dare you definitely met your same kind.
Even you are engaged in different occupation.
The philosopher, poet, musician and painters all have his/her
own professional jargon. Sometimes, the different professional jargon says the
same meaning. Sometimes, the same professional jargon says different meaning.
There is no hilltop you cannot turn over, but the ditch of soul cannot exceed.
We say a professional jargon towards craft brother and vomit true feelings to
the friend. Inter-personally the most profoundly classification does not lie in
profession, but in the mind.
A person has good feeling to someone, and he or she makes a
friend with him or she. Or to be interested in a certain matter and try to make
it into an achievement, this is originally all involuntary. If not commit to
memory important point and then cannot make a friend, not seek help from a secret,
and will not accomplish anything. It is thus clear that how lack genuine
feeling interest. But, there is no genuine feeling, how can there be true friend?
There is no true interest, how can there be true business? Since it is so, it needs
not long for social intercourse and the success again. Do it like that
certainly there is obvious utility motive, but that is still more superficial.
Deeper reason is the emptiness of spirit, hence is eager to seeking shortcut to
hide to go in the crowd and the affair. I don't know that how its effect is,
just know if person of the social intercourse like this walks up to body side,
I will definitely and more feel lonesome, if the successful man like this
stands in front of me, I will definitely feel more boring.
The comity is tolerant. Just as it does, friend once quarrels,
usually cannot save. That shows their rift necessarily and pretty much serious,
and have already arrived the situation that cannot tolerate. Only just may take
place to break off friendship between the good friends, passing association
deeper, now fracture harder to repair. But maintain a kind of nodding
acquaintance again seem to be not simply natural. As for originally just
nodding acquaintance of person, make or not a friend with them belong two
different things, breaking off friendship is nothing important.
The person of outside personality easily gets a lot of friends,
but true friend always seldom. Inside personality people standing alone, once
acquires a friend, usually true.
The friend in my heart, is not the nodding acquaintance not one
bosom friend, either. Degree is between both. How many personal here in the
world will remember each other while disappearing? Meeting can make them feel a
kind of tacit understanding, together spend one pleased time; they would be the
friend in my heart.
Getting comprehension is the huge merriment of life. However,
one simperingly in order to comprehend, have no person's comprehension then
will be in pain like a pitiful insect. Person put all the value completely
consigns in the others usually have not any value.
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