If you have an appointment, or go to open an important meeting, or ready to speak in front of many people, you may have already confused, palms sweating, the feeling is not natural, and feel nervous.
How can you overcome the tension of nervous and unrest?
Try to prepare in many cases, you feel nervous because you are not get ready. Sufficient preparation, not only can help you eliminate tension, the most important thing is to help reduce you nervous.
Ask yourself what is the worst thing will happen?
It is easy to complex one thing and infers the possible consequences will be very serious. But things are often not as serious as you think. By asking such questions, keep your mind positive and healthy.
Look the bright side.
Maintain the positive attitude, and imagine things are development as you want.
Although your imagination is not real, but by this way, you can get more soothing mood, while prevent your negative thoughts. For example, you're going to attend an important meeting; you can imagine the following situation.
Imagine how grand the opening session, you also feel a great feeling in the venue; You can see your smiling face, see your wonderful speech at the meeting, and then see the successful conclusion of the meeting.
The more you practice, the more you are familiar with the encounter situation, you will be more natural, and have enough confidence. Because you've been through and know what it is, you can predict what will be happen. So, grab some opportunity to practice so that you are able to truly experience something, you will feel more natural, rather than tense.
You should back to reality.
You only need to care about the current events, not to think about former things or worry about the future situation. You just care about today's things and the environment, not to think about 17:00 must pay report, do not worry about tomorrow morning will be open, do not worry about what do you want to eat. Regard it as a habit, because you will encounter a lot of messy things, you need make sure that other things will not be a disturb you.
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