We have to develop mentality of success, in order to make our life provide reward according to our own intention. Without mentality of success we will not get accomplishment. Remembering, our mentality is the only thing we can control by ourselves. Practice controlling our mentality and use the mentality of success to conduct our behavior. Hold the line, our efforts will move toward success. The methods below are made by Napoleon. He uses total 20 years to achieve that and visit 504 famous and successful people. At last, he lists the experience in life and career. Why not learn and merit from it.
1. Cutting up all the relations relate to our past failure experience. Eliminate all bad factors in our mind run counter to our success mentality.
2. Finding out what we want most in our whole life, and set about getting it at once. In virtue of others methods that can get the same benefits to pursue our goal.
3. Cultivating ourselves everyday to tell words and story comforting others. We can use telephone, postcard and some simple and kind action to practice mentality of success. For example, giving other people encouragement books that are to be given them things that can make their life full of miracle. Does the kind everyday can maintain a care free emotion forever?
4. We should know what defeat us is not frustration but we mentality towards frustration. Training ourselves find something equal to frustration whenever unpleasing.
5. Making sure to let ourselves foster the habit of seeking precision, and use our love and ardor to bring it into full play. If we can make it a hobby, that’s the best. If you can’t, at least to remember: lazy mentality will become passive.
6. Connecting with one you offended once, and gives him/her our honest regret. The more difficult it is the more we can get rid of the passive mentality when we finish the apology.
7. Getting rid of our bad habit, reducing a vice everyday in one month and reflect your achievement in one week. If we need advisory and help, doing not let our pride hang your step.
8. Giving up the idea to control others. Destroying it before it destroys us, and using our energy to control ourselves.
9. Exercising a lot to keep a healthy state. Physiological disease can cause maladjustment in the mind. If our body and our mind can keep vigor in the same way, then we can maintain successful action.
10. Increasing our patience, and tolerate all things in a open mind. At the same time, contacting with people of different race and belief. Learning to accept others nature but not demand others do things according to our opinion.
11. We should admit: love is the best medicine to our physiological and psychological diseases. Love can change and adapt the chemotherapy in your body, help you present success mentality; love also can expand our tolerance. The best way to accept love is to pay out our love.
12. Referring to other example to remind ourselves: any disadvantage the greatest inventor. Although Helen lost vision, hearing and ability to speak, but she encouraged millions of thousands. The power to definitive the goal must exceed any limits.
13. To the kind critic, we should accept but not take negative attitude. Accepting hard things can be overcome. Although
14. Avoiding any speech with negative meaning, especially eliminate carping and backbit others repute. This behavior will make our mind develop toward passivisation.
15. Showing real ourselves at any time and any place. No one will believe swindler.
16. Trusting whom work together with us, and admitting us choose the wrong person when he/she does not worth our trust.
17. Using the same or more value to pay for someone helping us. The rate of added reward will bring us doubling benefits at last, even may bring us the ability that we should own to get what we should get.
18. Using our entire mind to do things we want to do, do not leaving any space to have a bee in our head.
19. Checking our belongings thoroughly. We will find what we own most valuable is a healthy mind. With it, we can decide our fate by ourselves.
20. Believing the existence of wisdom without end, it can make us own all power we need to strive for success.
21. Getting rid of our bad habit, reduce a vice everyday in one month and reflect our achievement in one week. If we need advisory and help, doing not letting our pride hang our step.
22. Giving up the idea to control others. Destroying it before it destroys us, and using your energy to control ourselves.
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