The friend needs to work hard to conduct and needs to have a certain art. I’m not speaking to teach, but have already experienced it on my own. To a friend, and in spite of male or girl friend, you cannot value too much, otherwise the other party will feel that the pressure is very big, and will be pressed breathless heavily by your regard. And again you cannot neglect too much, either. Too neglect, probably can't be having connection.
Some friends, if you value him too much, will make him feel that make friends with you is very tired. Because you valued him too much and let him felt pressure, will also make yourself lead very hard.
No matter between the friends or lovers, the emotion to the other party cannot be equal. There is always one side paying out much more, but usually the one paying out more easily suffer from injury. So, now while getting along with friend, warn yourself to control your pay, then will make yourself and friends all be free from injury. So I can't demand other people now, as far as possible don't bring to other people pressure.
Isn't all people in the life can become friends. Everybody has his own life attitude, conducting way, fondness and personality characteristics; and choosing friends also has the respective standards and conditions.
The principle that I make friend is the communication of mind. I often think that the person lives in the world cannot get away from friendship and cannot get away from mutual aid, cannot get away from concern and cannot get away from support. When the friend come across difficulty and is subjected to frustration, if you stretch out to help him, help the other party to pass through crisis and overcome difficulty is more useful and reliable than presenting valuable gift. Since be friends, means to undertake obligation of getting rid of worries, overcoming hardship and enjoying happiness .Only this, the comity then can hold out for long time.
When the friends getting along with each other, injury usually is not intentional, help but is sincere. Forget those unintentional injury; bear firmly in mind those sincerely help to you, you will discover this in this world that you have a lot of sincere friends ……in the daily life, even the best friends will also have friction, we probably will separate because of these frictions. But whenever in the quiet night, we look toward the star sky; past fine recollection will always appear. Some recollections of pettiness bring infinitely shock to my lonesome mind! It is this felling makes me understand the friend's importance to me! The network is also similar, too near the relation will become complicated; too far will lose contact. Not near and far is exactly fine, only can feel the sincerity and friendship of each other. Each person has a square belongs to his own paradise. Friend, when your mood is upset, you disappoint, you feel the good friend is gradually far away, please cherish the friendship with friend's earnestness. No matter in a real life or in network, comity like air and water, you would not have painful feeling on its value unless you lost it.
Cherish each friendship nearby, regardless whether it has been past, whether it will have future. Probably it can't ever last; probably it will be thin to forget; probably will neglect, but have never should forget. It is a grain of seed, if cherished, it will sprout, take out leaf, blossom out until have fruit in your mind.
While that kind of the subtle fragrance for blooming also will company you forward for your whole life ……
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