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Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Knowledge Is More Important Than Color

Knowledge Is More Important Than Color


The ugly birth of racism among different races brought about a destiny killing complex that unfortunately still lives deep in the minds of many people today. No matter how much we try to either pretend or ignore its existence, the spirit of racism is very much alive among our societies.


Perpetrated, unfortunately, by the body that should have been fighting against it, racism has been the biggest blow to a man’s confidence and identity.


Traces of this vice can be found among people of different ethnic cultures but the biggest has been between white people and black people. For centuries now, white people have been taught and trained that they are a superior race to the blacks, and black people, through the slave trade that resulted from this teaching, have also been taught and trained that they are inferior to the white race.


This brain-washing has been so deep-seeded that to progress beyond this point; we will need a re-brain-washing in the right way, a retraining of our minds.


It’s not an easy job to simply tell someone, who has gone through this brain washing and thinks that anything black is bad while everything white is good, to tell them that there is nothing wrong with black, would almost take a rebirth of their mind to accept. Some people actually attribute the underdevelopment of Africa to the color of the skin of the African man. Is the poverty in Africa inherent in the black man’s skin? Is the black man under a curse to live in perpetual poverty?


From my childhood, whenever I saw the picture of the devil, he was painted black, and Jesus was always painted white skinned. All the angels in my junior bible stories book were white, while their counterparts, the demons, were all black. The English language even has terminologies such as: “black sheep”, meaning “a member of a family or group who is considered undesirable or disreputable – really a disgrace”.


Some of the meanings of phrases used with the word “black” as quoted from the American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language are as follows and I quote:


Black deeds” means: evil and wicked deeds.


Black thoughts” means: cheerless and depressingly gloomy thoughts.


He gave me a black look” means: his look was marked by anger and sullenness.


A black day” means: a day full of disaster and calamity.


Other phrases used with the word “white” are as follows and I quote:


That's very white of you.” Means you are decent, honorable and dependable.


White magic” is magic that is without malice and harmless.


White” also means auspicious and fortunate, morally pure and innocent.


To “black out” means to lose consciousness while to “white out” means to correct errors.


The list goes on and on.


With this background from infancy, reprogramming your mind to think differently is not an easy bit.


Our society has been staged to uplift the white race and down tread the black race. This is why slave trade was considered “normal”, the black man was not regarded as a complete human, and this was even preached in church. The church which was supposed to fight the scourge was actually in the forefront promoting this evil act in the name of the Lord.


To this day, when an indigenous black man sees a white man, he feels like he has met an object worth of respect because he’s been trained to think that way; that the white man is above him; and likewise, the white man feels superior when in the presence of a black man. Many white men were taught and trained that the black man is supposed to work for them and not the other way round.


When I was growing up, whenever I did something that my mom liked, she showered me with praises, and this is how she’d go:


Oh what a brilliant boy you are, you are a child of a white man, you are a white man, and your skin deceives us all!!” …and she’d go on and on bragging about how “white” I was and I’d feel really great and proud.


On the other hand, when I messed up, black was all over me; “you black African boy, what’s wrong with you??” she’d scream; this was the time you hated to be black. I wasn’t the only one who had this experience in my childhood, but this upbringing unconsciously trains you that to be black is bad, you should have been born white.


Apart from the slave trading of black people of Africa, those that escaped and remained in their countries were subjected to the tragic effects of colonialism. The segregation, the mistreatment and torture from this epidemic further cemented the inferior complexes in the minds of the black people. Their lives became wholly dependent on the colonial masters that ruled them for years.


And when they could no longer manage themselves without the help of their masters, they were finally given the so called independence.


You cannot be truly independent until your thinking is independent. The black people of Africa were colonized to think like their masters, to speak the language of their masters, to think that they were not able to rule themselves; they were colonized to think that their masters were smarter than them. They were trained to depend on their masters, and when this was eventually enshrined in their black minds, they got their independence.


In essence, the black man in Africa got his independence when he could no longer rule himself effectively. To this day, Africa is still struggling with issues of governance and poverty, not because Africa has no resources, but primarily because it does not have a mind of its own. Africa still economically depends on its colonial masters to a very large extent; the amount of international debt and aid accumulated in many African countries is a direct indication of this dependence and inability for Africa to rule herself effectively. Africa still has its master in the white man; and Africa lives by the economic policies of its master.


However, in spite of all this, you cannot continue to blame the past for your present and your future misdemeanor. We need to deal with this before we can make any significant progress.


Black people need to know that having an inferior perception of oneself will always cause your mind to function at below average. White people do not have a problem here, it’s the black man that has been looked down upon as having a below average brain, inferior to the white man’s brain.


An inferior self image will always result into an inferior lifestyle.

To a person with this mindset, it would take a total transformation of their mind to understand that there is no difference between a black man and a white man except for the color of their skin; and that there's no relationship between your achievements and your race. Unfortunately, your subconscious mind will always resist change from its prior training; this is a protection mechanism working in your system. Every person is either brain washed by them or by the environment in which they live to believe and think in a certain way. Brain washing can either be positive or negative.


The internet has become the greatest equalizer of all time, information that was once not available to you, is now available to all; the treasures that were once only for the select few, are now let out in the open for all.


There is a very interesting script in the Christian bible which says:


Therefore, my people are gone into captivity, because they have no knowledge and their honorable men are famished and their multitude dried up with thirst.


Isaiah 5:13


The greatest enemy in your life is not your race, neither is it your fellow human being. Anything you cannot change is not what you are up against - that's not your enemy.


The greatest enemy in your life is called "ignorance". What you do not know will always have an upper hand over you.


The text from Isaiah 5:13 above, implies that the main reason you are hungry and in bondage is that you have no knowledge.


Most of Africa fits this description perfectly; "into captivity and famished".


When slaves were taken from Africa, they were forbidden from learning to read and write, lest they discovered themselves and knew what their masters knew.


Have you ever heard of the phrase…?


If you want to hide anything from a black man, put it in a book…??


Because Africa, in general, does not have a culture of reading, this prevents the creation of a pool of knowledge within the continent.


Knowledge will give you power to face your future with confidence.


Knowledge will break down those chains of inferior complexes resulting from racism and segregation.


Knowledge is indeed more powerful than color!!


But what is knowledge?


True knowledge is one that starts from knowing yourself first. Even a prince, if he does not know that he is a prince, he will live like a slave. Knowing yourself will direct the course of your life and will determine what you touch, what you study and eventually what you achieve.


Unfortunately, there is no college nor university in the world that offers a course about you and who you are; the greatest university that offers that course is inside you.


The greatest achievers of our time are people who learnt how to manage themselves and placed themselves where they could perform and contribute effectively – it is people who knew their strengths, their weaknesses and their value systems. These people know exactly how best they perform and so they do not try to change themselves but rather harness the way they perform.


This is key number one to true success, to a fulfilled life; to happiness… discovering your true self will make your life easier and more enjoyable.


How painful and difficult it is to cut down a tree with a knife – though it looks like the knife might actually get the tree down some day, the job is easier done with an axe because a knife was not built for cutting down trees. But this is how many people are living their lives, pursuing a life for which they were not built and armed, and therefore finding it so difficult.


Are you finding life difficult? Is what you are pursuing too hard for you? Are you enjoying your work or do you dread it the minute you think about it? Are you saddest on Mondays and happiest on Fridays? Perhaps you are a knife which is trying to cut down a forest and the project seems to never coming to an end!! Or maybe you are an axe but you are busy only cutting vegetables and you feel so dissatisfied because your full potential is locked up and unutilized…


Many from the adult population in formal employment, actually don’t find fulfillment and satisfaction in their jobs; and because they have been locked up in the chase to make ends meet, they would not do anything about it apart from enduring the days, and for most, they find weekends as the only time they have to pursue their dreams, and their joy comes from what they do only in two days per week. Under performance in jobs comes primarily from people that are misplaced and only work to earn a living; they work because they have to, not because they enjoy it.


True knowledge of one self, is the beginning of a purposeful and therefore meaningful and enjoyable lifestyle; and knowledge is truly more powerful than color.

Monday, June 6, 2011

Enlightenment from a fisherman

Frequently, people always feel the conditions of themselves are the same as their competitors, and even superior than the opposite side. But they could not understand why their performances always are not as good as the competitors?

 

Now, there is a spirit story which will introduce to you. I wish this spirit story would enlighten some thoughts for you after you have read off it. But you should find the answer by yourself! 


One day, a young man went fishing on the shore. An old man sat next to the young man, also the old man was fishing too. But there is something very interesting; the grand old man got a bite on his line without break, while the young man did harvest nothing all the day. So he could hardly retain one’s composure finally, then he asked the grand old man: “The places where we two people fishing is the same, and the bait which we are using is also the same, But I could understand why you can get a bite so easy, however I get nothing.”


The grand old man said:”When I am fishing, I only know there is me only, I do not know there is fish in the river. I do not only never move my two hands and never blink my eyes, but also it seems that my heart just like without beating, so the fishes are not conscious that I am here. Therefore, they bite my bait. In your heart while you only think whether the fish bite your bait or not. Also your eyes stare at the fish all the time, if you see there is fish rising to the bait, you become irritable and your mood changes constantly. Your mood is restlessness. The fishes are frightened away, so how can you catch the fish?” A person can be able to understand one’s own shortcoming; you just can be ale to be full with confidence victorious. Only you see the performance of other people while never know the reason of their success, you have lost half.

Friday, June 3, 2011

Tips on how to Properly Manage Social Anxiety in Any kind of Situation

Tips on how to Properly Manage Social Anxiety in Any kind of Situation

There are millions who are actually enduring, more or less, social anxiety. This is also true on some occasions. It is straightforward to imagine all the diverse symptoms of this because you just have to think of your personal experiences. If that identifies you in certain social situations, you understand full well that it is frustrating and boring. To find out more of this, read on.

There are causes for social stress and anxiety along with contributors for you to discover. You can get in the routine of not being around people if your job, for example, is one that you perform all by yourself. Being artificially cut-off from people and society will simply help sustain the condition - typically speaking. However, if you have minimal self esteem and confidence, then obviously that will not help matters at all. So you can begin to change things when you make an attempt to go out and try to be around people in some way. If that idea makes you stressed, then just do it in very little steps - but do it. On the other hand, look at what is possible with this. You can discover community offerings to become a part of, and they are not tough to find. Possibly the hardest part is the first time you do it, but it will strengthen over time.


In an attempt to become more mindful of what you think on a daily basis, you have engaged in speculating what someone else may be imagining about you? That conduct of the mind is pretty frequent, we believe, and it can wreak havoc in your everyday living. The curious factor to that mental game is you'll find usually adverse attributes to the guessing. If you do that, and we bet you do, then start becoming more mindful of those thoughts throughout your day. Just plan on doing something concerning that, and then know you must form new thought practices. Just comprehend what you are doing - you are claiming to know what others think and feel about you. Naturally, that is not something anyone is capable of doing to any appreciable degree.


You do capable of hanging your mind - commit to changing your thought patterns to something much more positive. There's that is about shifts in viewpoint and frame of reference in life. Then, you keep working hard at it until it turns into a habit. In addition, you can make this happen in much less time than you may be thinking is possible. Research has shown that you can form new patterns in as few as two to three weeks. The obvious connection is you'll be far less prone to interpreting what others express, or guessing negative thoughts when you think more positively.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

How men can keep themselves motivated toward their goals?

How men can keep themselves motivated toward their goals?


Therefore, finding motivation is the way for these men to achieve their goals. Motivation is the bridge that can help you realize your goals. Most of us have some or the other goals in our lives. These goals make us strive harder and perform our best in what we are doing currently. Whether at home, work or school, goals form an essential part of a human’s life. But with time, as we see obstacles coming our way, we tend to get De-motivated to achieve the goals and might even give up our goals. But this obviously is the wrong way to live life. Motivation is important for every individual more so for men who have to fulfill the societal expectation of running a family. Therefore, it is important that you always keep an eye on your goal no matter the hard times or difficulties.



Goals vary from each individual to individual. They can be simple as well as complex. Some men may aim for a job promotion; some would want to go on a foreign vacation; while some would aim to buy a car or a home. No matter the goal, one thing that is imperative for the achievement of these goals is motivation. Hence, if you want to achieve goals but are not motivated enough from within, the lack of driving force would ensure that you never realize your goal.



It might happen that you are motivated and have the zeal to work toward your goals but still you witness failure. It happens and this should not be the stumbling block that makes you give up on your goal. Remain motivated. Just think about what you will achieve once you accomplish your objectives.



Tips to stay motivated:



Listed below are ways through which you can remain motivated toward achieving your goals.



Here are ways to motivate yourself towards achieving your goals:



  • Take a boost from your past achievements – You have to strike a balance between your past achievements and the ones you aim to achieve in the future. Pondering on your past achievements would give you a certain boost that can motivate you to gives your 100% toward the goal. In short, if you have done it once, there is no way you cannot do it again.

  • Break down your goals into smaller, manageable ones – If you have one big goal, it is better if you break them down into small and more manageable goals. These small goals would be the steps that you have to take in order to gradually reach the bigger goal.

  • Your perspective counts – No matter if you have tasted failure or success in the past, just take lessons from it and move on. Use these as your motivators to perform more. This will help you take closer to your goals. If you think something is wrong somewhere, then analyze the situation and make the necessary changes.

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